We are still reading everyday.
Here is what we read today.
During our reading my wife posed a question that I have been wondering about. She said
"I wonder where the Biblical prohibition against multiple wives is?"
"I know that there is something about deacons being the husband of one wife and that Jesus said something about marriage not being that way in the beginning. " I replied.
"I think they were still under the command to be fruitful and multiply." she said.
"Maybe this not being a sin at this time has something to do with the amount of work that they had to do at that time just to stay alive. You have a washing machine and they had to haul their laundry to the stream.
Also, what exactly does this concubine job include? And how do you get one? Did they have craigslist? Maybe craigstablet?
How would you feel about it if I had a concubine?" We've been married long enough that I can playfully ask that question. You can tell by her answer.
She laughed and said "That depends on how well she can keep house."
I did want a better answer so I looked it up. According to
Wiki a concubine in the Bible is a wife that does not come with a dowry. Also according to the
Wikipedia there are no explicit commandments regarding monogamy in the new testament. So far there haven't been any in the old testament either. The only things more that they have to say is what other people have said about it. To me this seems like adding to the Bible. I think that the fact that God created one man and one woman might say something, but within a generation or two we see the multiple wives. Also, David was a man after God's own heart, and he had concubines.
Now, don't go looking for my posting on Craigslist. Our wedding vows included the phrase "forsaking all others". I wonder what their vows had. "Forsaking most others" or "forsaking some others". Maybe the whole "forsaking" clause was left out altogether. Let's see (I copied this from
here) what that would leave.
""Will you, _______, have _____ to be your wife/husband? Will you love her/him, comfort and keep her/him, and remain true to him/her as long as you both shall live?" ("I will")
(Repeat) "I, ________, take thee ______, to be my wife/husband, and before God and these witnesses I promise to be a faithful and true wife/husband."
(Rings) "With this ring I thee wed, and all my worldly goods I thee endow. In sickness and in health, in poverty or in wealth, 'til death do us part."
If this accurately reflects your wedding vows be advised that I am not responsible for your posting on craigslist or the resulting divorce.